Life StyleThis is a featured page


Vikash Kr. Singh
Many people see cow dung just as a shit; but there are also many who use them as a good fertilizer. Even use them as an alternative, recyclable and less harmful fuel. This is where the difference lies between seeing and visualizing. The difference between the sight and vision; the vision that makes our LIFE STYLE. Many of us want to sit back and expect our life to be as sweet as honey. But how many of us dare to extract the honey from the honey comb, by putting our hands between thousand of bee-bites? No doubt that honey would seems to be more sweeter for those who gets it from the honey comb, than those who get it served at home, in an adulterated form. Of course, being a human being, there is always need of receiving and taking. But, why do we always forget that no one can only receive, for his lifetime without giving.



“Asafal aur safal mein bas itna hi antar hota hai; asafal khush rahtein hai apne ashiyane mein, par safal ke liye pane ko pura asman hota hai”. The above lines does not mean that our life should flow like a dam without any check, which washes away the fertility of the soil. But why can’t our life be like a kite, soaring high towards the unlimited sky, but grounded on earth through a string which prevents it from being astray. Why should we only waste our time counting upon our pitfalls? Why not we fill them by our strengths and make our life beautiful? “Winners recognize their limitations, but focus on their strengths; losers recognize their strengths, but focus on their limtations”.


Again I want to raise the very same old topic that – “Hard work is the key to success”. Success is like the gold. In order to get a little quantity of gold, we have to dig tonnes of mud. But when we dig, we do so in search of gold and not in the search of mud.


Nature is supreme. We must mould our habits according to the nature so that we can get the maximum out of it. We must never try to break its law. By doing so we might harm ourselves. “A Zoology teacher was demonstrating how a caterpillar comes out of its pupa and turns into a beautiful butterfly. Advising not to help the caterpillar out of its pupa, he went out of the class for a while. While everyone followed the advice of the teacher, a boy showed sympathy towards the caterpillar who was struggling in pain to come out of the pupa and helped it to come out. But as soon as it came out it failed to survive and died”. Every one was amazed to see this and were trying to tickle up their minds to know what might have happened. The teacher returned and explained that by helping the caterpillar out, the boy actually helped it to die. It is the struggle which make it to get acquainted to the new environment. If one can overcome that struggle, then not only he/she can succeed in life but can make it as beautiful as a butterfly.
Looser always look for quick fixes. There are two ways to get rid of the pest. One by short cut and another the long way out. One way to get rid of it is by using a grass cutter. This will make the garden look good temporarily. But soon the pest will grow up. Another way is to sit down and take all the pain to dig out the pest along with its roots. This is the time taking process, but you get rid of pests forever. So we must find permanent solution for temporary problems; and not temporary solutions for the permanent problem. It is always good to die once than to die every day.


We must have a positive approach towards our life and our life style will itself become positive. Failures are a part of life and not the art of life. We must not sit back after failing, as there are always new things to learn from our failures. This is only the positive LIFE STYLE – the Style of Living. “God, even if I fall, make me land up on my back so that my eyes can see the endless sky, and not the ground. This will remind me that there is still infinite to achieve and thus will motivate me to stand up”.



deka.jayanta
deka.jayanta 		Latest page update: made by deka.jayanta , Mar 7 2008, 7:11 AM EST (about this update About This Update deka.jayanta Edited by deka.jayanta

6 words deleted

view changes
- complete history)
Keyword tags: Vikash Kr. Singh
More Info: links to this page

Threads for this page

There are no threads for this page.  Be the first to start a new thread.